Has the spark been taken out of your relationship? The days pass one after another in the same way, no surprises, just the ubiquitous stereotype? Have you discovered your partner's skeleton in the closet and don't know what to do about it? Has sexual attraction disappeared or has your partner cheated on you? You're arguing and you can't communicate? Are you tired of the stuffy atmosphere at home and want to do something about it? Try couples therapy! Quickly, efficiently and from the comfort of your home. Is the partner a foreigner? Not a problem! We offer couples counselling in several languages.

Even the most outwardly ideal relationship can break down.  Boredom, fighting, surviving side by side, feelings of confusion.. Most people think they can solve problems in a relationship on their own. But sometimes it's necessary to look at the whole situation from a different perspective, to let go of emotions, to try to understand your partner's point of view. But a lot of us can't do that. And that's why you should see a psychologist.

How does couples therapy work?

The course of couples therapy may vary from one psychologist to another. Some people want to work with both partners, others with both the couple and each of them separately. You may also find that the psychologist will recommend that one or both partners have further therapy with another colleague who will focus on solving personal problems. These also play into the functioning of the relationship and need attention. Before choosing a psychologist, try to clarify what you expect from therapy and what your own requirements are.
Don't expect to leave the psychologist's office as a couple in love again after the first session. You took off the pink glasses a long time ago. As they say, you can't teach an old dog new tricks, but you can at least reach an acceptable compromise. It all takes time. Some people need 4 sessions, others 12. It all depends on you and your partner. The psychologist focuses mainly on building the collective „us“ during the session. They try to find solutions that will suit the couple. That is why the psychologist is more active in a couple consultation than in an individual one. He tries to make the partners learn to communicate with each other, he directs them. All this with a great deal of perspective. A good therapist should never take sides.